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You Ugly! Really? I Got Your Ugly!

J. A. Jackson Author
2 min readSep 16, 2020

Saying Someone Is Ugly Doesn’t Make You Pretty! In fact, it tells on you. It shows that you are not about anything but stopping someone from participating in living their best life.

What would you do if someone called you ugly? How would you act? Being called ugly to many will strike a nerve and make a person feel upset and hurt.

The best thing to do if someone calls you ugly is to try not to stress out about it. Then take control of your emotions. Taking deep breaths can help center you and help you get any feelings of anger under control. Next, ignore the other persons words. By ignoring their words, you don’t give them power over you.

I will be the first to admit that ignoring other’s comments can be hard. However, it is something that you can work at.

Another thing you can do to take over control of a negative person’s opinion of you is to use positive self-talk when you go about practicing ignoring others’ harsh words.

To do positive self-talk all you have to do is repeat to yourself that the other person’s words have no power over you and then to empower yourself with positive words to take the place of the negative words.

Next make it a habit to focus on maintaining your self-esteem. You can do this by standing up for yourself and telling this negative person something like this. “Your opinion about me, doesn’t change who I am. I Love myself, completely. You are entitled to your faulty perception of me. And I am ok…

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J. A. Jackson Author
J. A. Jackson Author

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